Beating our bias and tendency to use logic and reason to support our preexisting beliefs

I love Mark Manson’s articles.  Mark Manson and Jeff Brown have (very different) rare wisdoms and writing styles.  Jeff Brown talks about love (self help and sacred sexuality) and Mark Manson in an instigator.  In Mark Mansons’ latest article called Why You Can’t Trust Yourself he discusses 8 reasons.  While I can relate to all 8 of the ideas, number 4 caught my attention and I want to discuss it a bit below.

4. YOU GENERALLY ONLY USE LOGIC AND REASON TO SUPPORT YOUR PREEXISTING BELIEFS

I feel inspired to address this immediately.  I ran over to 130words.com to start writing as honestly as I could.  I prepared myself to be disappointed with facts.  I prepared myself to be honest.  But I honestly couldn’t find a sturdy foundation to start from.

Certainty

As a kid, I had a rock.  I was certain of math and science and as a result I excelled in the system we’ve built around our youth – academia – which in return reinforced my certainty.  But math and science don’t give humans a purpose.  I had to find that by opening up to my subjective experience and I’m still searching for anything as remotely sturdy as my childhood rock of math and science.

Purpose

Some of the other points Mark makes further validate my feeling of instability attempting to source purpose from the experience of self.  It is certain that there is no human purpose in math and science, so I’m better off here in the subjective but I’m still not standing on anything reliable.

Mark’s points:

  1. You are biased and selfish without realizing it
  2. You don’t have a clue about what makes you happy
  3. You are easily manipulated into making bad decisions
  4. You generally only use logic and reason to support your preexisting beliefs
  5. Your emotions support your perceptions way more than you realize
  6. Your memory sucks
  7. “You” aren’t who you think you are
  8. Your physical experience of the world isn’t even that real

This list sets off so many trains of thoughts I’m having a hard time sticking to one point.  Fortunately I don’t need a memory to scroll back up and see why I’m writing this article.  Let’s get back to how our personal brands of logic and reason are generally used to support your preexisting beliefs.

Pigeon Hole Self

We pigeon hole ourselves.  In a way, this helps us maintain a stable identity.  On the other hand, it prevents us from making breakthroughs.  And if there was ever a time for breakthrough in my life, it is now.  Actually, it is often, but why not start now.  Avoid tangential thought trains and get back to breakthrough.

Vulnerability

I’m resurrecting a word from the diluted and fading New Cage self-help movement.  And if you disagree that it’s fading, double check how old you are and go checkout what the new generation cares about.  Notice another tangent.  Great, one step to personal growth, but what the heck to do with it?

Own it.  Openly.

Tangential Trains of Thought

I am inspired into tangential trains of thought that derail me from my initial goal.  Antidote?  Focus and notice.  Notice when I get derailed and come back to the initial goal.  Finish the job before moving on.  Recognize that I’m drastically over emoting about the importance of these inspired thoughts.  They are all just thoughts.  I was married to one a moment ago.  Bring the relationship to completion – a concept I heard several times at an introduction to Landmark Forum.  Or was it World Works… I can’t remember.

Meditation and Noticing

Note, this noticing muscle can be most directly trained in mindfulness meditation.  Someday soon I will begin sharing my experiences with meditation at meditationtimenow.com.

Trust Issues

If I trusted that I would edit this article, which I should because a few more appropriate headings would be helpful for everybody, then I would.  But I would rather complete this goal than leave it hanging.  But this brings up another issue.  I have trust issues… with myself.

What’s my point?

What have I done here?  I’m demonstrating how a rambling writing process can help you expose yourself to yourself.  I’ve openly admitted to us all here that I get (1) derailed by tangential trains of thought and (2) can’t trust myself.  We’ve come to some helpful conclusions including (1) use noticing to bring myself back to my original path (2) train noticing with meditation and (3) this kind of self discovery can be practiced with writing.

Beating Our Bias

This is all an effort to fight back against our use of logic and reason to support preexisting beliefs.  They may be small steps outside of my box but it’s a start.  A daily practice like writing at 130words.com can be beneficial to growing our self awareness, fighting through ruts and making breakthroughs.

Reasons You Should Never Get A Job

Having a job is the worst way to make money.

You only get paid while you’re working.

We’re encouraged by our parents to go to college and get a good job.  This is a good way to guarantee student loan debt and line you up for a midlife crisis.

No job is “good” for the rest of your life.  You’re excited now?  You’ll get over it.

If you have anything of value to offer the world, don’t get a job!  Provide.

Product or service – if it’s of value, we’ll buy it.

We don’t care how long it took you to do it.  We only care about the value we receive.  It it’s of value, we’ll pay you for it.

Don’t trade your time for money.  De-couple your value from your time.  Build a system that generates a passive income.  This can be a business, a website like this one, becoming an investor or getting royalties from creative work.  The system delivers value to customers and you get paid whether you’re at work or not.

It takes an initial investment of time and effort to build your passive income system.  You don’t need to reinvent the wheel.  Just remember to provide value.

If you don’t know how to start a business or build a website – no problem.  Learn!  Learning at a job may be useful for a minute, then it’s repetitive and useless.  Don’t get a job. Go to the library.  Or keep reading.

Yes, this all takes time.  But when you’re done, you’re free.  Instead of wasting your life away saving pennies for your midlife crisis, you’ll be working your way to financial freedom.

You like your job?  Good.  Do it because you like it.  Not because you have to.

And if you do like your job, please help me understand how your natural independent will has come to terms with obeying your master’s nonsensical rules while you trade your time for his financial gain.  Office party on his yacht?

Generate income through other means.  You can earn income by trading value – not your time.  Provide your best value and charge a fair price for it.  Start a business and do what you do best.

All you really need is the courage to be yourself.  Your value is in who you are, not what you do.  Summon the courage to express your real self to the world.

You already know deep down that you don’t want a job.  Trust your inner wisdom.  Years from now you’ll thank yourself.

This post was inspired by Steve Pavlina’s 10 Reasons You Should Never Get A Job.