The response to last week’s article was flattering. We had several shares on Facebook and a small army discussing it on Reddit. I’m getting positive feedback from old friends and complete strangers. An old friend and mentor wrote:
Love the new blog!!! Your writing will make a world of difference. Spread your message to the world and the tribe will follow.
He also addressed the problem of the hour, which I face yet again this evening. I’m tired and bored at my day job. It’s easy to get discouraged and forget the good things a job provides. A job may not be the best way of making money but it’s a good place to start.
Your job is an opportunity. It’s an achievement that you’ve attained. It alleviates the money concern. Now you’re concerned about your health, your friends and family, your time and your life’s purpose. Your concerns are elevated to a new level.
Don’t view your work as taking away from your mission. It’s setting you up and will make you enjoy your journey that much more. Be thankful for every day behind that desk. It gets you closer to success every single day!
Another wise friend wrote a supporting message to our readers about confidence and noticing change in this process of personal development.
The changes inside of you will be noticed while you’re continuing onto your life’s work. It may come in the form of a subtle reaction that surprises you. Or a decision you make that you know you wouldn’t have made in the past.
I learned a lot last week. I learned that great good and growth can come from opening up and being a bit vulnerable. I was afraid to complain about my situation, recognizing how fortunate I am. I also recognize that there’s a clear difference between whining and productive reflection on a problem I’m having. And most of all, those ideas for solving a problem or approaching a difficult situation can inspire and be helpful to others.
So what’s eating you today? Is there something you’d like to improve? How are you going to approach the problem? Could someone else learn from your approach? How will you know until you share?
In the comments below, share your perspective or approach to solving a personal problem. Ask yourself what you’d like to improve and use the first thing that comes to mind. What’s the most important thing you can do in the next 24 hours? Share with us below.
I’d like to improve how I feel about my job.
I catch myself behaving as though letting my job feel worse will help me get a new job thus solving my problem. This is a terrible approach to improving my situation. Letting my job feel worse will mean that I feel worse in the short term. And crushing my spirits will not inspire me in the long run. This behavior accomplishes nothing!
Relying on unhappiness as stimulus for positive change is unacceptable.
Make the most of where you are. Keep a list of upsides and take advantage of them. When you’re faced with a task you don’t want to do, be gentle. Break it up, take baby steps and reward yourself. Don’t stress if it’s not up to someone else’s standards – you’re not going to be stuck there much longer. Do what you feel is right. Don’t worry about others. Do what makes you proud.
Your situation will improve instantly. But don’t forget the greener pastures. First be fair – is your job so terrible or is your perspective to blame? If you’re job’s not so bad, coast and get to work on your dream. If there’s something better for you out there, get to work. Build the bridge and enjoy every step of your epic journey to a better situation.
Clarify that vision. Set goals for improvement. Focus your goals on self, not circumstance. Have a plan. Focus on high-return tasks – those are usually the ones you avoid doing. Do one every day – put in the effort, take the risk, then you’re off the hook for the day. Make progress every day.
No matter what you do, you are fortunate. Take time to recognize the upsides of your situation and maximize them. This will not prevent you from making positive change. In fact it will boost your self-esteem and inspire you towards bigger goals than you dared dream. Clarify the vision, set personal goals and make real progress everyday.
What situation would you like to improve? What does improvement look like? What are you going to do about it? Share with us in the comments below!